Happy May guys!
I wanted to send out a humble reminder for this month-
In a world where we are constantly told that we need to change who we are in order to fit into societies standard of success and importance, it can be difficult to resist succumbing to everyone else’s expectations. I want to remind you that it is your birthright to be yourself. You don’t need to mould yourself into someone else in order to please others. The people who are meant to be on your journey will show up for you. Claim your space and follow your dreams. You have something special to offer this world and it is precisely your uniqueness that makes you so valuable. There is no other version of you and that is your superpower!
A Note to Self:
Have a blessed month ❤
Questions to you:
What are you grateful for this month?
What are you looking forward to?
Much love Ash, xx
I have made 10 printable planners and worksheets for only £1! Purchase your own printable PDF worksheets here.
Each sheet is perfectly sized to print in A4 or A5 format.
You can print them on whatever paper you’d like including Matte Finish, Card paper.
This document consists of 10 worksheets:
- Short team Goals- List your short term goal and 6 mini goals to help you achieve it.
- Long Term Goals- List your long term goal and 6 mini goals to help you achieve it.
- Gratitude Journal- List things you’re grateful for and what you’re learning from your struggles
- I Keep my Cup full- Fill up the cup with empowering words about yourself
- Challenging Negative Thoughts 1- Debunking Negative Thoughts
- Challenging Negative Thoughts 2- Debunking Negative Thoughts
- Trash Thoughts- Letting go of Negative Thoughts that no longer serve you
- My Daily Planner- Plan your day with the Daily Planner
- Weekly to Do List- Plan your week with the Weekly Planner
- Goal Setting- List your Goal and 5 steps to help you achieve it. Get more specific about your start/end date of when you’d like to achieve your goal.
These worksheets are Perfect for ALL types of people, especially those who are:
- Currently working on a project
- Looking to get more organised
- Struggle with Negative Self-Talk
- Wanting to Journal
These all-encompassing worksheets are made to help organisation different areas of yourself to meet your personal goals. Worksheets are an amazing tool for self-reflection and exploration. You will find a note on each page to help guide you through the activities worksheets if you need extra help.
PURCHASE YOUR WORKSHEETS HERE:
All payments are made through paypal. Once you made a payment, SEND ME AN EMAIL TO: firstname.lastname@example.org and I will send you the DIGITAL DOWNLOAD via email within the next 24 hours. If you experience any issues, please don’t hesitate to email me.
Don’t forget to hashtag #ashalves on your socials and let me know what you think!
I hope they’re helpful 😊✨
Best, Ash xx
You can’t keep holding yourself hostage to your previous wrongdoings. They do not define you but add character to your life’s story. You owe it to yourself to let go and forgive. You can’t beat yourself down about something you know better about now. That version of you no longer exists anymore.
Whilst you have to take responsibility over your previous actions, the only thing you can do is strive to a better version of yourself in the present moment and learn from your mistakes. Beating yourself up about them will only steal your joy and take up energy that could be used for personal development. Don’t allow guilt to stagnate you or fool you into making the same bad choices over and over again.
Remind yourself that you have full control over your present actions. Use your past mistakes to motivate you to do and be better. Mistakes usually set us up for something more profound if we use them in a constructive way. Maybe one day you can use your experiences to inspire and help others. So let’s be more compassionate and kinder to ourselves mmm kay!
© 2018 Ashanty Alves All Rights Reserved
If you’re sensitive you’re probably well accustomed to hearing phrases like “it’s not that deep” or “you take everything so personal”. This may be true! However for us sensitive folks it’s much more complex than just simply getting over ourselves. Deciphering between whether our emotional responses are valid verses taking things too seriously is very difficult to figure out (well for me anyways lol).
Hyper-sensitivity feels like being an unwrapped lollipop (weird analogy I know). You feel exposed to everything and easily contaminated. Negative experiences or words just stick to you and you have a hard time convincing yourself that it’s not worth your energy nor concern.
This affects different aspects of your life, especially when it comes to expressing your feelings in relationships (Family/Friends etc). There’s a fear of not being taken seriously or having your feelings undermined. Trying to build and maintain emotionally healthy relationships can often get complicated and draining. This can also have negative effects on your self-esteem. It can make you distrust of your own feelings and intuition, causing you doubt who you are as a person.
But despite the challenges, I believe being a sensitive person makes you extremely empathetic. Within a world that’s callous and unjust, being sensitive can be used as a tool to make a positive impact on the world. Growing up I was constantly told that I had to be ‘tough’ in order to survive and for the longest time felt like my sensitiveness made me a liability. Now I’ve started to see it as a blessing not a curse. When I get told that I’m sensitive, I can confidently admit to it without feeling shame or guilt about who I am. What has helped me get to this point is exploring ways to deal with it especially when I get overwhelmed by emotion.
For my fellow sensitive ones, I’ve thought of a few coping mechanisms that have helped me along the way:
- Establishing boundaries in relationships– People who are sensitive often have a hard time creating appropriate boundaries for themselves. There’s so many times that I’ve felt bad for saying what I will and will not accept because I felt like I would be considered “extra” or “too sensitive”. This led to me accepting unfulfilling relationships and caused a lot of distress. Realize this, you decide what you will and will not accept within your relationships! Your needs are important no matter how trivial someone else may think they are. Don’t be afraid to set appropriate boundaries. It will save you a lot less emotional turmoil and constantly doubting yourself.
- Own your sensitiveness- The next time someone calls you sensitive to derail your feelings, turn around and say “yes I am sensitive”. Be proud of it! That way when someone tells your you’re being sensitive it will have minimal affect on your mood because you’ve already accepted that it’s part of who you are. Remember that your sensitiveness is a blessing not a curse.
- Find an outlet to express your feelings- I write my feelings down to filter through my thoughts and understand them better. This is really helpful especially when you have to make important decisions or confronted with conflict. Instead of reacting based on our immediate feelings, we get to make more informed and rational responses. If writing isn’t your thing, find a means to express your feelings, whether that’s confiding in someone, making music or painting etc. Do whatever helps you to deal with your feelings in a healthy, productive way.
Are you a sensitive person? How do you cope with your feelings?
Is there anything you would add to this list? I Would love to know your thoughts..x
© 2018 Ashanty Alves All Rights Reserved